Hi everyone, I’m at a loss because I don’t feel like I did anything wrong, but the way my roommates reacted has me questioning myself. I live with two roommates (Emily and Katie, not their real names) who are childhood friends. We’ve lived together for about a year, hung out a lot, and I considered them some of my closest friends. Recently though, things have shifted, whenever I bring up chores, they respond passive-aggressively, they’ve stopped inviting me to things, and Emily even came into my work, ignored me, but then posted about being there. There were a handful other shady situations, but for time sake, I’ll leave it there. It all led me to feel very anxious I texted Emily a short text and said I was feeling sad about feeling some mistreatment and asked if we could talk in person. She responded with a long text saying she hadn’t mistreated me, that I was making everything about myself, and that I was causing drama all before I even explained why i was feeling this way. When I said I just wanted to talk in person to avoid it getting messy over text, she told me she needed a break from me and that I never should’ve brought it up in the first place. Katie then sent me almost the same message, also saying she needed a break and that I was causing drama. She said she’s upset because I used the word “mistreatment.” I genuinely just wanted a calm in-person conversation, and now they’re both acting like I’m the problem. I feel like I’m being gaslit and I honestly don’t know what to make of this. We all haven’t been home this past week but we’re all coming back today and I just don’t know what to do. AITA for telling my roommates I felt mistreated and wanted to talk?