I have a fake Christmas tree, that my mother bought last year before she passed. I'm wanting to use that tree for Christmas. It's one of the only things I have from her since she passed away in a different state and 99% of her things were thrown out. My partner wants to go out and get a real tree, as she has on her grandfather's birthday every year growing up. She said she always has the best Christmas' and while so did I she sees it as less than to have a plastic tree. She says "The tree isn't your mom" and my response is "The tree isn't your grandfather." I'm refusing to back down. It's my first Christmas without my mom, and it's a great tree for being plastic but I will not give in and now she's upset. This has been an ongoing fight since we moved (1 month after my mother passed in February.) what do y'all think?