AITA? I (14m, ftm transgender) don’t visit my grandparents anymore, and here’s why: for my entire childhood I have been forced into the jehovahs witnesses cult/religion (?) it’s hard to tell at this point. I’ve been forced into it since I’ve been 2 years old, have been forced to go door to door, go to two hour long meetings twice a week, and almost got baptized in it at the age of 9, to which I refused. I usually went to see my grandparents on the weekends (I’ve lived with one of their Jehovahs witnesses friends who make me abide by the same rules as earlier, since I’ve been 2) but now I don’t visit anymore because if I did I would have to be in the congregation for the cult there as well as where I live. They also don’t support me for being trans, and they hate the entire lgbt. The woman I live with also doesn’t accept me for being trans, and has since homeschooled me for it. They weren’t there for me when my dad died, and also expected me to be there for them when they weren’t supporting me. They also kept me from my other set of grandparents my whole life. Where I live if I refuse to go to the meetings, I will be turned into the police for “unruly child”, and the lady also called the cops to report me as a “run away” after I didn’t tell her I was getting a men’s haircut. (Keep in mind she’s transphobic) the lady I live with is also very very strict. Am I the asshole? Any advice on what I should do?