I (22f) have been friends with these two girls (lets call them A and B) around my age since going to uni (just graduated) and we’ve always been a tight trio but since the last 6-7 months, I’ve felt our relationship slowly change for the worse. I’ve never been able to put my finger on why exactly this has been happening, but I’ve started to feel left out and excluded sometimes maybe more emotionally than necessarily physically. Since we’ve all graduated we’ve all been living in completely different areas, however one of them (A) lives in a big city maybe 2 hours from me yet I’ve not rly had the chance to come visit since grad day. B, has been spending time with family in a different country, however has recently come back to visit friends here and without me being aware about this, has spent 4 days with friend A whilst staying at her place. I feel quite hurt and betrayed as I haven’t seen them in months and they’ve decided to have an intimate hangout without me and the only way I found out was through an instagram story. I confronted A by responding to her story, but she brushed it off as believing I was “too busy with work” and that I “knew B was going to stay with her” as they apparently told me over a month and a half ago without any follow up. I wrote a long paragraph about how this made me feel regardless of whether it was intentional or not, but instead she has left me on read, along with B who also left me on read when I briefly responded to her story stating I hadn’t realised she was in the country. This hurts especially as I’ll be leaving the country in 2 weeks without knowing when I’ll be back so this could have very well been the last time I’ll see them for a long time. However, despite all of this, knowing they’re both currently at As house enjoying each-other company, I cant help but feel like I will be a topic of their conversation. Where I feel like ITA, is that maybe approaching the situation made it into something it wasn’t, and that maybe it was my fault for not asking about what they’ve been up to. I just don’t know what to do about it and if i’ve now messed up a nearly 3 year long friendship over this. The issue is I can’t read the situation and feel like I might be ruining their time together by involving myself and should I just trust them when they say they thought I was busy or couldn’t make it as we are good friends and they have no reason to do anything maliciously. I’ve come here as I can’t seem to understand whether I am justified or not.