Am I an ass for wanting to unask a friend to be my bridesmaid? I 22f met this friend 21f when we were 17 & 18, we met through my finances best friend, (her now ex bf) we don’t talk as much as we used to and after I had my baby she has been kind of MIA. Anytime I ask her about wedding stuff her responses seem short and uninterested, and at my birthday dinner a little while ago she was cross arms, pouting, and passive aggressive the whole night, which in turn made me incredibly anxious. Am I an ass for wanting to invite her as a guest and not a bridesmaid anymore? How do I go about it if I do? (I recognize that anyway I tell her, she will 99% chance take it a bad way and that’ll be the official “end” of the friendship) I just don’t feel like it’s fair for me to walk on eggshells on my wedding day because she’s upset and passive aggressive. (Her ex bf is one of my fiancés groomsman also)