I (22f) have been dating my bf (25m) for over a year. Been living together for about six months a little over. He has two kids, ones 5 and the other is 3. Not with me, with their mother about the same age as he is. They both like me a lot, always have and I am thankful for that. I’d never yell, cuss, scream, or hit. They do not get their way with me, I say no I’m just nice about it. I’ve come to pick/drop them off on designated days as usual, sometimes her boyfriend is there and picks up the kids physically, like in his arms. It’s never bothered us, because, why would it. But the last time we went to drop them off, one of them was feeling a bit clingy. She did not want to leave my side, and was throwing a fit the whole car ride there. I got out of the car and hugged her, and told her she needs to hug her mom and say hi. She refused for awhile, but eventually left my side and went to her mom. A week goes by and nothing is said. But the day rolls around where we have to drop them off again. She texts him and says that it was rude of me to get out of the car, it should be settled between “him and her not our partners” and that moving forward I should stay in the car. Mind you, she has not employed any of these rules for her boyfriend. She claims I “blocked her daughter” from walking to her. I was in the same spot when her daughter did walk to her, then I got into the car. If she wants me to stay in the car/not come it is what it is. But I don’t feel like I’ve done anything at all. She should be happy her kids like me, right? I feel if I was anything other than what I am now she would have more of a problem with me, for example if they said anything bad about me. I try to be respectful and stay out of things, but it’s hard to explain that I cannot get out of the car/come with to drop them off. It has already made her daughter cry explaining that I am not coming with them, even though she didn’t know why. AITA?