Hello Reddit Me and my husband decided to rent a room at our house to my cousin (20). His ex gf that I became friends these past few months, we go to the gym together I do consider her my friend but lately I’ve been so annoyed with her lately. Her and my cousin are broken up but they still talk as “friends” .. before they started talking again my cousin would go out or be at the gym for a long time which gave me and my husband some alone time but since she started coming around more they have just been home .. she has been sleeping over Friday night-Monday morning every weekend. I think what really bothered me was that one day I came home from having a girls day and my husband was home and she was home alone in my cousins room, I asked her where was cousin and she said he went to a party. That got me soooo mad! I think the reason I got mad was that she felt comfortable staying here alone, I know she’s my friend but we are not that close to the point where I trust her to be at my house alone! I talked to her and my cousin about how I felt and they both seemed to understand but she’s here again and I talked to her last weekend. My husband is always saying “ she’s here again.” I just don’t know what do to. Am I the asshole for telling her she can’t come over every weekend ?