My brother in law and his 8 year old daughter have been living with us for almost a year. His name is not on the lease, but he does pay half of rent. His daughter is a spoiled, entitled little monster that does absolutely nothing around the house. She had stolen from me, hit me on one occasion, and lied about me to deliberately cause problems. Brother in law has been out of work for over two months and sleeps from the time his daughter goes to school until the time she gets home. I am a stray at home mom of 1 little boy and now another child on the way. I am 5 weeks pregnant, at least. Today I told brother in law that I want to have a talk with him and my husband about him and his daughter helping out more once I get too big to do the things I normally do, like dishes and picking up the living room. He flat out said, "Is not fair to ask her to do anything outside of their room because she doesn't contribute to that, but I'll occasionally help with dishes" First of all, she does contribute to the mess because she eats off the dishes I clean, wastes the food I bought, leaves those dishes and trash on the table, plays with the toys in the living room, etc. Etc. My husband agrees that it's okay that she only helps do their room, the game room, and the bathroom they use. AITA for being upset about this??