My husband (60) scratches/adjusts himself multiple times an hour. I have requested that if he needs to adjust when we are in public to do it behind me or to face me. I have brought this up twice over the course of multiple years. he gets upset and defensive. I dont want to hurt his feelings but it seems excessive. I should note that I was raised with 4 older brothers and have never seen them, my dad, uncles, teachers, coworkers, etc ever "adjust" openly. should I suggest different underwear (he wears loose cotton boxers)? leave out baby powder or gold bond powder? I dont want to be TAH, but not a fan if the adjusting. ETA: he wears loose cotton underwear. he hates to wear anything even slightly snug, shirts, underwear, jeans, etc.