Am I the asshole? I know sleep is a sore subject and when you haven’t gotten a lot you can act differently than you normally would. So with that out of the way, I had already been struggling to sleep this night and most nights. I usually wake up having to pee(I know I should drink less liquids) and then get back in bed usually very tired and ready to go to bed. However my partner sometimes moves a lot while I am trying to sleep, like once every ten minutes. I know this isn’t his fault so I don’t blame him or anything just try to keep sleeping. Tonight, when I got back in the bed his pillow was shoved under the corner of my pillow, making it impossible for mine to even lay flat. I told him hey your pillow is under mine and moved it a little. I thinks this jarred him awake making him upset and I believe he hasn’t gotten the sleep he has been needing. He gets up in a huff goes to the bathroom then comes back to tell me something and I say we can discuss is in the morning as I don’t want to argue I just want to sleep. He comes back with yeah I wish you would have done that. As in not woken him up to tell him about his pillow….. I am really not sure here. Though I know I exhibited asshole behavior I don’t think I was overtly trying to be one or selfish? I take up only a 1/4 of the bed :( I just wanna sleep guys