I (31F) recently moved in with my partner’s (35M) home. We’ve been together for about 3 years. He’s divorced with 2 children from previous relationship, ex-wife moved out, but very much around because we try to get her to be involved in raising the kids. We communicate with her on a regular basis. He lives in the city, I lived and worked at a neighboring town (about 45 mins and 49 miles far) and an opportunity opened up for me to work a better paying job close to where he lives. So ultimately, we decided it’s a sound decision that I move in with him. Not for free, I share home expenses. Basically, living life together. 2 weeks in, I’m organizing my stuff in the house and I found ex-wife’s wedding dress in one of the closets. I told my partner about it, and ask him to ask his ex-wife to take her wedding dress. He said he would, and I didn’t think about it anymore. about a month has passed and I needed to grab something from the same closet. I found the wedding dress still there. I felt annoyed but decided that the guy probably just forgot. After all, we’ve been quite busy over the past days. That evening, when we both sit and chill in the backyard, I asked him, “babe, have you told *ex’s name* to get her wedding dress?” and he said no. I reminded him to reach out to her. I’m residing at this place 3 months now and last night, we were having those late-night convos where we really check up with one another. And I shared to him how I am aware that the dress is still at home, and I understand that it might be something petty for him, but it is something that bothers me. He told me that he forgets because the thing is out of his sight. He got up from the bed, mind you it’s 11pm, took the dress out of the house and threw it in the trash. Went back inside and said, “there. threw it in the trash. gone now.” I did not react nor respond. I didn’t know how to respond to that. I wasn’t asking for him to throw it out. I just want the ex-wife to deal with what’s hers. am I irrational or too sensitive to be bothered by a wedding dress? was it wrong for me to ask? am I the asshole for following up with the request as I asked? Am I the asshole for asking him to have the wedding dress removed from the house in the first place?