My 21st birthday is coming up and I wanted it to be special, I had the entire party event planned out from drinking games, to activity's, to acceseries and outfit details since I was 16. I was recently talking with someone I had invited who will soon be 24, I mentioned how I got a sapphie blue crown and wanted a nail set and dress to match said beautiful art peice since its my birthstone and we had planned to get them done, a couple days ago she went and got her nails done without me and got them a blue close to resembling sapphire, and has even made comments about the dresses I was picking out on how they matched her nails, and even was talking to someone were mutuals with about going back and getting the exact same dress I had for when I decide to go out to a bar/ club for the first time so we can "match" even though she has also stated in the past she hates how blue looks on her. AITA for wanting to be the only one wearing a color close to my birthstone at my party? Don't get me wrong the color blue itself is fine I mean like that certain color range of blue itself.