AITA for not wanting a keg at the celebration of life (i.e., funeral)? My husband’s friend passed away unexpectedly, and my husband (28M) was asked to host the celebration of life for him. I (27F) have not drunk alcohol for two years now. While I’m okay with having some cocktails, I think having a keg feels tacky and disrespectful. I’ve mostly stayed out of the planning because this is my husband’s friend, and I believe that they, him and his friends, should be able to grieve in whatever way they need. However, I told my husband that I don’t want him to become belligerent, and I won’t participate if that is the direction this is heading. He responded by saying that I’m belittling him and being rude. It feels as though I am choosing the worst possible time to express that I’m tired of being sober while he gets sloppy. I just want us to present a united front. So AITA or am I being gaslight by an alcoholic?