My best friend has been on and off with her ex for months. Every time they break up, she vents to me, and I’ve always supported her because that’s what friends do. But then, the next day, she forgives him and says she overreacted. I get that people make mistakes, but after a while it just feels exhausting. Then her family found out about the boyfriend and forbade her from seeing him (for reasons I can’t really get into, but they were somewhat valid). She broke up with him but then secretly met up with him like nothing happened. Afterwards, she told me there was no future for them, and I said, “Then why keep seeing him? Won’t that just lead him on?” She said she loved him and couldn’t let go, which I do understand, but it felt contradictory. Fast forward two days later, and she suddenly tells our friend group she has a new crush. I was shocked and said, “Didn’t you say you were still in love with your ex just two days ago?” She replied, “Yeah, but it can’t work out, so I’m moving on.” I told her I didn’t really understand that, and now she and some of our other friends think I’m cold or unemotional for saying so. Apparently, the way to get over someone is to start liking someone else while you’re still talking to your ex. I don’t see it that way, and I was honest about that. AITA for being blunt and saying what I thought?