I (24F) am in a relationship with my boyfriend (22M), and we've been together for almost 3 years. Two weeks ago, he told me he was coming to spend the long weekend together with me. A week ago, I asked him directly to confirm that we were spending this long weekend together. He said yes, confirmed multiple times, and even told me to decline other invites (like a friend’s trip). His family even floated the idea of us going to their cottage and he said I’d be included. He also reassured me that if plans changed he’d give me a heads up. Now that the long weekend is here, he spent the whole day with his family yesterday, never called or texted me (except a 2am “good night” and a meme), and didn’t confirm when he was coming over. When I brought it up, instead of acknowledging that he dropped the ball, he insisted we “never agreed on this weekend” and acted like I misunderstood. To me, that felt like gaslighting. I ended my messages respectfully (“enjoy the weekend with your family”) because I still wanted to show care, but deep down I was expecting him to still prioritize me and check in about how hurt I was. We had a text convo that were a back and forth and after my string of messages, it's silence from him. I can’t shake the feeling that if he really loved me, he would have stepped outside or found a way to repair right away, not leave me hanging. This isn’t the first time I’ve felt deprioritized like this. I feel like I can’t trust his words anymore because they don’t match his actions. AITA for being this angry and feeling like I can’t trust him? I feel so hurt, upset, furious, and indignant all at once.