Recently I broke up with my ex partner. It was a fairly mutal breakup and I had no problem with it. Afterwards, a week or so ago, I had started a new job. My manager, who is mutual friends with both of us, had told me about what my ex had posted on their Instagram story. It was a full rundown essentially saying that I was suffering with depression and that dating me is a lost cause. After hearing that, I had messaged my ex telling them that they are a shitty human for putting that on show. Now a lot of the people close to me are cutting me off for being angry at the Instagram story. Am I the asshole?