I (17 F) went on a school trip over the summer. It was a 6 day trip to Anaheim, California with six other students. Like the typical teenage girl, I overpacked. To be clear, everything fit in my suitcase on the way there, but after souvenir shopping, I no longer had enough room to pack everything home. My friend (who I was sharing a room with) Peyton (18 F) kindly volunteered to pack my extra things in her luggage, because she had room to spare. Once the plane lands, everyone is in a hurry to go meet their parents, and I don’t get my clothes back that day. I’m not really worried about it though, because Peyton is my friend who lives in my town, and it shouldn’t be hard to get the clothes back. Peyton told me she put all of my clothes in a bag. I’m sure you can see where this is heading. About a month goes by and I’m unable to come to her house when she’s available, and she wouldn’t be home when I was available. (Conflicting work schedules, no one is to blame for that). Anyways, Peyton moves out to her college dorm out of state, and I reach out to her younger sister to go pick up my things. Her sister tells me that her mom donated the entire bag of clothes, which included (but not limited to) a Lululemon jacket, two pairs of American Eagle shorts, my Disney ears I bought when we went to the parks, my Disney lanyard that i’ve been collecting pins on since I was 6, and my brand new (bought for the trip) Birkenstocks. When I asked where they were donated, they refused to tell me because “if I wanted the clothes so bad, I should have picked them up earlier”. I understand that I should have picked up the clothes earlier, but AITA for being frustrated that they were donated without warning? I don’t know what to do, and I feel like I can’t react negatively because I’m the one that’s in the wrong here.