So I had an argument with my father today over something that occurred yesterday and I need input as he and my family think I’m wrong for being upset… I don’t really get along with my dad’s side of the family (my aunts specifically) because of envy, emotional damage, etc. Anyway, my mom passed away almost 8 years ago (she was literally the kindest woman ever, always helped my aunts even though they hurt her a lot). Yesterday would’ve been her birthday. So my dad sent some videos in the family group chat to remember her. Then my oldest aunt, without acknowledging my mom whatsoever, posts a TikTok saying she misses her mother (my grandma, who passed from Covid 4 years ago) and replies to my dad with something like: “kisses to heaven, may she keep blessing us.” Then my younger aunt also chimes in with “kisses to heaven” and random stuff. Then my younger aunt goes off with this super long message about how much she misses her mom too, how she was the best, blah blah blah. After that, my older aunt’s son (mind you, my mom did SO much for him and his wife when no one else was willing to) sends an audio recording of a song my grandma used to love. Like… seriously? It was my mom’s birthday!! So I replied with: “I thought it was my mom’s birthday hahaha.” Now my question is: am I wrong for being this disappointed and pissed at my family?? They literally have any other day of the year to mourn their parents/my grandparents, and I just wanted ONE day for my mom. If they had nothing to say, I’d rather they said nothing at all instead of hijacking the whole thing. It feels so disrespectful, like they took my grief (and my sister’s) and made it all about themselves.