My fiancé, 35F and I went to her sister’s house for a seafood boil. While we were having dinner she brought of a conversation I had had with my brother about coming over to our house since my fiancé wanted to host him for dinner. For background my brother hasn’t made the best decisions in life but is slowly trying to get on his feet. He is paying his car off and said he’d love to come but after he pays the car off. She didn’t warn me she was going to bring that up. It caught me off guard and I had to awkwardly smile and pretend to drink/ laugh as to not show how upset I was. Then, later that afternoon she yelled across the room to ask “ how many men in your family have cheated on their wives?” Again, talking to her sister and mom and again caught me off guard. I feel she uses my family as a punching bag because they do t really want a relationship with her. My family did t grow up super close. We love each other but we just don’t hangout like other families. So, am I overreacting? Thanks in advance!