So my mom moved to a beachfront residence in Florida in 2020. We’re from Illinois, and she still maintains friendships with a lot of people here. I’m gonna call the two friends in this story J and A. J is a great friend to my mom. She talks to her on a regular basis and invests in her life. A however, hasn’t spoken to my mom in months. J and A are very close friends, but mutual friends of my mom’s. A messages J and says “I want to go to Florida”, so they plan a trip. Meanwhile, A hasn’t communicated with my mom whatsoever. A comes down with J and brings all 3 of her kids. My mom graciously offers to buy them all dinner one night. A lets her son buy a $70 lobster dinner, since she doesn’t have to pay for it. She then posts 44 photos in an album on her Facebook of her and her kids in my moms house, in my moms pool, etc. My dad is in the background of a hand full of these photos. But A doesn’t tag my mom, doesn’t say thank you, nothing. She presents things online like she just took her family on vacation, and stayed at an AirBNB or something. So I see this post, and I send her a message. I say, “I think it’s awfully performative of you to not tag my mom or include her in your post. It presents like you’re taking advantage of her hospitality/kindness. Show some respect, she’s doing a lot for you. Have a nice time.” Am I the asshole for calling her out?