Hey yall. I (23F) was supposed to go to a concert this weekend with my friend (also 23F). A little background info, I am a single mom who is a full time college student and my only availability to work is weekends. I literally cannot afford to miss a weekend of work to go to this concert. She is not a parent or a college student so she does not understand my situation. She lives pretty freely and i’m just not able to because I have small children. I asked her if maybe she could sell the ticket or get a refund for it because I will not be able to go. (she bought both our tickets at the same time and I was going to pay her back when I had the money, which would be in a couple weeks) She asked why and I told her because I need to work so I can pay my bills. She just left me on read and won’t respond. I know she’s really mad at me. If she can’t get it refunded I completely plan on paying her for the ticket because I understand I have inconvenienced her. She will be payed for the ticket regardless. I just feel like keeping a roof over me and my kids head and food on the table is more important than a concert. Am I the asshole or doing this? We had these plans since before I started school and I really didn’t know I was going to be in such a financial rut. My parents say I am making the responsible decision and that I shouldn’t care that she’s mad because she’s not a parent she doesn’t understand. I still feel bad though. Let me know please.