AITA So my SO is going on holiday with his cousin alone to somewhere in spain in September (i know where it is i just dont need to go into detail) and his cousin is paying for him to go there. They asked me if it was okay and I encouraged them to go and said yeah of course get them experiences in. Couple days later my best pal tells me we need to book a holiday next month just me and her because shes been working hard and wants to spend time with me so obviously I say of course. I speak to my SO and said im gunna go on holiday with my friend as well, possibly shortly after you go on holiday. And hes made me feel awful saying its all a way to get back at him for him going on holiday, guilt tripping me and making me the bad person. When that is completely not my intention. So am I in the wrong for thinking this isnt fair? Like I was not bothered about him going anywhere but as soon as I want to, its a big deal? Help x