I don’t even know how to begin to explain this situation but here we go. I (27F) have an 18 month old daughter and long story short her father put on his running shoes and i was left to raise her alone. Thankfully my family is helping me with my daughter financially and im also working. During my pregnancy i met someone, let’s call him Steve (29M). his sweet, a hard worker, so respectful and his been through the pregnancy and postpartum with me, without him I would’ve been a reck. He made my pregnancy so peaceful. A few months ago our relationship hit a rock, he woke up and broke up with me LITERALLY and i was obviously heartbroken and i confide in my mother about what happened and she told me that it’s been 3 weeks since she’s been home(she doesn’t live with us) and i haven’t gone to visit him once (i saw him a month before we broke up: she didn’t know that) and in her words she said if she was him, she would cheat too because i never make time for him/visit him, that statement is the light version to avoid making this post long. She even told her friends about my breakup and the advice she gave me. Fast forward to now 3 months later … i decided to give Steve another chance and his been consistent with working on the cracks in our relationship, so we made plans to have a weekend to ourselves even though his going to be taking me to work in the mornings and picking me up in the afternoon when i knock off and we spend time together after work so i tell my mom only so she knows where i’ll be during the weekend and also to ask if I should leave my daughter with our live in nanny or take her to my grandparents my mom says “i shouldn’t do sleepovers at a boyfriend’s place” and i remind her she said to me if i don’t spend time with him/visit him he will cheat, my mom got mad and said im a disrespectful child and i don’t value her and she’s never giving me advice again and so AITA??