I moved in with my long-distance boyfriend at the start of the year, since I moved from a different country we both thought it would be easier to live together immediately. The job market is horrible and I've had trouble finding a job so he is about 80% fully supporting me - mostly with groceries, eating out and I don't have to contribute to bills or rent. The original agreement was that I'd do all of the household chores like cooking, organising food for the week and what I like to call the 'household manager'. We also did both agree that he'd do the bathroom and take the bins out because that is a mans job. But now, I am working a few hours online each week (barely making any money), and trying to start an online business that we can both work on eventually once it gets started and eventually with the hope that he can quit his job and we can move countries. He still expects me to do all of the chores I listed above, but he just never holds up his end of the deal and I have to ask him to take out the bins and pressure him to clean the bathroom. He's not really an adult child, he's pretty good at household duties, even loves to cook. But his behaviour tells me he hates cleaning the bathroom and wants to pay someone to do it instead. AITA because now I am doing all of this work to keep the house clean and running AND also starting a business that he will eventually work on as well (and has been arranged so it is a joint project for us), but I can't help get annoyed that he doesn't do the bins or bathroom without being asked? Also, I pay for 20% of my lifestyle, which I thought was a reasonable percentage for him to take ownership of the bins and bathroom since he's not supporting me 100%? Edit: I'm working on a business that both of us will eventually commit 100% of our time to. It takes up my time like a full time job will, and will eventually be profitable (although right now isn't)... Edit 2: also want to add im about to start lessons 4 hours x 5 days a week to learn his language...