I (18F) have been dating my boyfriend (19M) for almost a year. We just graduated high school this past may, and he’s living with his parents to save up money. We both have full time jobs. They’re charging him $400/month in rent for him to live there. The issue is, I’m not allowed in his room at all, not even with the door open. I also have to leave their house by 9pm. I’ve never disrespected their space, I say hi, I follow their rules, and I don’t overstay. I don’t smoke, drink, or anything like that, and my boyfriend and I have even chosen to wait until marriage. We mostly just watch movies or talk. We’re both legal adults, and I feel like I’m being treated like a bad influence or a rebellious teenager when I’m not. What really hurts is that his friends-who literally do drugs and party-are allowed in his room with no issue. They're also allowed to sleep over. But I, his longterm girlfriend, get treated like a problem. I brought this up to him and he actually agrees with me. He says it bothers him too and admits the double standard is unfair. But he also says he doesn’t think there’s an alternative since it’s “still their house,” and he doesn’t want to fight with them. I know I have to respect their house rules, I’m not trying to live there or change their household, but I also think that if you’re charging your own child $400/month for a bedroom, he should have some say in how he uses that space. Especially when other guests are given so much more freedom, despite actually doing things that are questionable. AITA for thinking I should be allowed in my boyfriend’s room, especially while he’s paying rent and we’ve been together nearly a year?