Sorry for my spelling, English is not my mother tongue. Me (30F) and my husband (31M) have had an argument. Our daughter is 2 months old and I haven’t bought a single outfit for her. We received some hand-me-downs from my best friend, which I found really useful since babies grow so fast. Then my mother-in-law bought a complete wardrobe – about 30–40 outfits for newborn to 2 months – before the birth and surprised me. I wanted to keep the peace, so I didn’t say anything. I just thought, okay, I’ll buy something when she grows a bit. Now my mother-in-law has already bought the entire wardrobe for 3–6 months. I tried to talk to my husband, but he told me I’m being ungrateful and spoiled. He said I can just go and buy something, but I don’t want to be wasteful. I ended up sending my mother-in-law a text, and she totally understood – everything is fine between us. But my husband still doesn’t get it and thinks I’m wrong. On top of that, because of all the baby clothes my mother-in-law bought, my own mother doesn’t want to buy any clothes either, since she says I’m already getting so much from my in-laws. Am I the asshole??? Update: We live in Europe but not in the same country. She is lovely, and it’s not that I don’t appreciate free clothes – it’s more about the memory and experience of choosing some outfits myself. She has bought so much that not even every piece gets used. Just donating her things doesn’t feel fair to her either, which is why I brought it up. She took it with grace. My husband called me the asshole, so I wanted to check. If I am the asshole, I will accept it.