Hi all. Looking for some opinions and support on a weird wedding situation. As some back story, my mother died when I was 11 and I moved in full time with my single father. My maternal grandparents stepped up a lot throughout my childhood to help my dad out. I’m getting married next year & my maternal grandma stepped up and told me she would fund the entire wedding dress. Her story has now changed multiple times over payment and who’s paying (she is now saying my paternal grandmother is pitching in on my dress.) All of my shopping experiences have been horrible. They hate every dress I try on and will not listen to what I (the bride) wants. I found my dream dress and yesterday they pulled the rug out from me saying they will not pay for the dress because it’s too much money. (I personally think it’s because they do not like the dress, not the cost). They knew the price of the dress from the start and they knew the budget I was shopping in. I am now a year out from the wedding and have to start at stage 1 to find a new dress. They have now started sending me used dresses that are not styles I have any interest in (we’ve been shopping 4 times they know I want an a-line ball gown). And keep putting pressure on me for wanting a “boring expensive dress”. AITA for being upset about them ripping this dress out from under me, not giving me a strict budget & trying to force me to get the style they want? There’s more to the story and how I grew up but it feels very intentional and controlling of them to pull this stunt. Edit to add: I have no money out aside for the dress as I was under the impression this was going to be set in done in a week and I’d have the dress paid for. All my other funds went to other wedding related things. My hands are super tied and I really can’t afford a dress without their support. Edit 2: even with a budget from the initial grandma. She will say a price & if she doesn’t love a dress under that budget she will find a way to say she can’t pay for it. On the other hand, if there is a dress over her budget she loves, she will pay for it. It is very calculated and conditional to what she wants and her preference.