I (35M) have been planning an outing with a group of friends for a while. We’re all busy so a wine tour, then dinner took some effort for scheduling. One of our friends (30F), texted me the day before stating that she is ill and not feeling well. So she cannot attend. No real issue for the group as I ate the cost for her spot on the tour and pre-fix dinner. I responded with, “I’m sorry to hear that. No worries, get some rest and feel better soon!” No response. Since then, she has ghosted me when I texeted asking if she feels better. According to mutual friends, she thought my message was callous? I currently assume she is just upset I didn’t reschedule the whole event but that seems unreasonable to me since it took months to plan. Has the saying changed and I am unaware of it? I’m so confused. We’ll all be meeting again as a group. I hate walking on egg shells around a person but don’t want to apologize for no reason either.