So about 6 months ago my aunts cat had a litter of baby's. I fell in love with our cat when I seen her she was super sweet and cuddly so of course begged my wife to let us get the cat and she ended up saying yes. Well today we had a big fight about it and now she's saying I forced her into getting her. Now of course I begged and begged her at first and she's saying that I forced her into saying yes by begging her. Now 100% I agree I was trying to convince her and I shouldn't have kept begging to get her but at the same time is that fair to say I forced her into saying yes? I get women are little more sensitive and susceptible with words which was no way my way of looking at it when I first started begging her. Of course I was trying to beg her to get it because I really wanted the cat and she said I should've dropped it at the first no and I just don't understand that. Am I the asshole for thinking that I didn't force her and she could've kept saying no?