I m(19) have been dealing with the most stuck up person m(13) so it all started when I came back from college for the summer. I went to temporarily move in with my mom. My little brother had just started middle school and which I’m not gonna lie are some of the most difficult years especially growing up. Now not only that I haven’t seen my brother in a good while practically almost a year since I’ve been in college studying, and what not, but I had recently noticed that his demeanor changed and his behavior changed in a weird way because I remember my brother was sweet and although we did get into fights, it was never this bad Mind you I had just gotten out of a relationship of four years and decided to move on after a good while of separating now one of the first times I brought a girl over to my mom‘s house. My brother was running his mouth about my last girl, let’s call her Ivy. Which came out of nowhere and sounded Pointless he would bring up things we did with her in front of my other girl which made her very uncomfortable and ultimately led to her not talking to me in me and getting too big arguments. I tell my brother to not talk about stuff he doesn’t know about and especially in front of company. I’m not gonna lie. I did yell at him a little bit and scolded him relentlessly (now realize that was a little exaggerated). Although I believe I was a little harsh since I took one of his favorite devices that belongs to me a meta-quest that I let him borrow since I was back in town and I’m sure if you guys know they’re pretty fun. And he looked quite mad and sad after I told him that and he hasn’t talked to me since But still, I can shake the feeling that I betrayed my brother in a way and since he is my brother I don’t know if getting mad at him over some girl was worth it. Do you guys think I’m being too harsh and maybe he just made a mistake by speaking about that front of someone without really realizing it . am I the Ahole? Edit: I guess Im starting to realize that a lot of people think I’m the Ahole but I think I’ll have a conversation with him today and probably give him his meta quest I’ve taken into consideration everyone’s advice thank you. Don’t get me wrong I don’t want to be that type of brother I wanna be some who he can trust!