I live in a 3rd world country. My mum borrowed $500 since last year and she told me she'll pay me back. She even told me she'll pay it last Christmas but til she still hasn't. Now, I have this debt to one of our distant relative which I always pay $1000 every month to her through my mum. So since last year, I always wire the money to my mum and she wires it to our relative. Earlier this year, my parents confronted me and my older brother that my mum got scammed and the money I wired for the debt payment was used that month. We ended up lending her $1400 that my brother and I split, to pay for what she lost and the debt the I need to pay to my relative. This my fault on my end that I should've just wiring it directly to our relative which I'm doing since that incident. Fast forward to today, we found out that my parents are doing unnecessary home renovations that costs $2000+. All this time we thought that my mum was still recovering from that loss and that she has no money yet to pay us back. I've always want to be a good son as far as I know and don't want to hurt her. My wife hated her since the scam incident cause for her, she stole our money that was supposed to pay for our debt. AITA if I ask for those money that we lend?