WIBTA if I came out to my parents over the phone? I know some people find this rude/ to not talk about something like this irl. Would I ( 24 nonbinary, assigned female at birth) be the *sshole if I came out to my family and parents as nonbinary through a text or Facebook post? For context my whole family is very right wing, they dont like trans people and coming out as bi didn't go well, also my mom tells me at least once a year how she prayed and wished for a daughter. I have been the peace keeper and the no drama child and the emotional regulator for both my parents. Because of this is have a large fear of upsetting them, part of me just wants to post on Facebook or send a mass text and not deal with the face to face backlash. Im afraid that if I dont say it in person that it might not be fair to them and won't allow everyone to process everything. I dont live with them, and I could probably be financially independent if I worked hard enough, but would I be the *sshole if I just ripped the bandage off virtually?