Long story short, my sister and mom cannot attend my uncle’s funeral and so my dad asked if I would go with him. I was never very close to him, or much of my dad’s side of the family. I live an hour and a half from my parents house and they live 2 hours from where the funeral is held. So over 6 hours of driving there and back for a 45 minute event. My dad could maybe ride with one of his other brothers and I could not attend potentially, but I feel bad saying that I wouldn’t want to go after my dad asked me to. Is it out of line for me to be even considering not wanting to go? Would I be in the wrong for asking my dad to catch a ride with his brother instead? It feels selfish but I’m curious what others think about it.