Me and my bf have been in a long distance relationships for a year. I am now in the process of selling my apartment and moving to his hometown. His schedule at work is hectic and he does a lot of physical work. Knowing this, I tried to ask him for help the least bit possible, save for a few things. For one, I asked him to help on the day of the actual move, to unload boxes with me and the moving guy. I texted him when I thought we were close by, so he had time to come and be at the location. He arrived late, but he managed to help unload. He decided to help and build a bed frame for me, since he had some days off work. He started the process, asked for no help whatsoever (I offered multiple times), and got a sprained muscle. In the meantime, we agreed to have some furniture delivered in one of the days so he can also help me with stuff. After this, he couldn’t help me with either. I’m now back at my home with a bad flu, but I have some paperwork to take care of here, and also to carry some stuff from the old apartment. He knows this. I told him I’m coming back to the new apartment (town where he lives) at night. He didn’t offer to pick me up. I am tired, stressed, haven’t slept in a proper bed for a week or more. I feel like he could have done better. The bedframe was supposed to be ready last week, but since he injured himself, he had to rest, then went to work, then had two days free for errands and game with his friends. But on the other hand he tells me how much he misses me (we live 20 minutes away now) Will I be the asshole if I tell him I feel a bit taken for granted and let down? Or am I an entitled bitch for feeling like this?