I (31F) met my fiancé (37M) almost seven years ago on Tinder. He's a gentle, hardworking man who's been incredibly kind to me. He helped me get back on my feet when I had nothing. Our fights usually stem from misunderstandings, partly due to his inexperience when we first met. We come from different backgrounds, making it challenging to find common ground. However, we've learned from each other.I had a comfortable upbringing, whereas he struggled for a significant part of his life. I'm not materialistic, and although it took time to adjust to a different lifestyle, I've learned to appreciate life's valuable things. I feel grateful.However, I know our relationship won't progress as I hope – marriage, starting a family, owning a home (we currently live with my mother-in-law). We've discussed this, and he says he's not financially stable, which I understand. Yet, this makes me feel alone in the relationship. As a woman, I want children, but time is running out.I love my mother-in-law and appreciate her providing us space, but I feel like a teenager, lacking privacy.Recently, I received an inheritance and an opportunity to work on my family's business back home. My fiancé agreed to leave his life and family behind for a better future. He'll no longer need to work, and we can afford a normal life. I'm happy to share my financial freedom with him, but I'm unsure if I'm doing the right thing or being taken advantage of. I want to provide him with the life he deserves, but I also feel he's never been able to provide for me, even now relying on me indirectly. For instance, when our shower broke, we now share a bathroom with my mother-in-law. When I expressed frustration, he said he couldn't fix it without my financial help.I feel guilty and selfish for thinking this way AITA ?