(For context, I live with my partner and his fam) My sister in law is moving overseas, and she still doesn’t seem to have a solid plan for her pets. She was originally going to dump 5 cats and 2 large dogs on us She at least (temporarily) rehomed one cat and euthanized another (after us begging, he was quite unwell) but she’s leaving in a matter of days with zero plan for the rest of the animals. So that leaves us with her 3 cats and 2 dogs. The immigration process will require her to come back to the US after 3 mo (before she leaves again, presumably for good), so we’re effectively on (unpaid) pet sitting duty for 3 mo, plus the foreseeable future. I’m not gonna lie, I’m pissed off about it. We’ve been telling her those dogs are a terrible idea from day one. They’re very high energy husky mixes (she leaves them crated a lot of the time) and they’re aggressive. Both my partner and I have been bitten (without drawing blood, out of sheer luck) We can’t have guests over without the dogs trying to maul them or bark non stop from the other room. One of the dogs has literally never been to the vet because she tries to bite every person and animal that she isn’t familiar with. They get in constant squabbles with each other, and it can get nasty really quickly. Both dogs have repeatedly tried to go after my own dogs- the most recent incident was one dog attempting to attack my DEAF and BLIND senior dog (like 20 lbs max) over the fucking WATER BOWL. She has explicitly said she does not consent to us rehoming her dogs…. (We didn’t consent to giving free pet sitting for months on end, but ok) She’s said shit like “I know mom and dad said they didn’t sign up for these dogs, but I think they’d miss them if they were gone” Additionally frustrating- she keeps saying she’s going to (eventually) take 2 of her cats with her…. But she clearly has not researched the process, bc it’s easily thousands of dollars per animal (she couldn’t even pay to have her own cat euthed, her parents had to cover it) and requires careful planning that she hasn’t put any thought into. Would I be the asshole to rehome her dogs? Not to sound mean, but none of us particularly like them (being bitten firsthand, having to rip them off of each other, and them trying to hurt my own dogs miiiiight have something to do with it.) None of us signed up for the responsibility attached to these dogs. We all objected to her bringing them home in the first place Cleaning litter boxes for a while is one thing, but managing two large aggressive dogs is ENTIRELY another. Idk, am I the asshole?