Last year I (27F) had a very ugly conflict with the highest manager of the Logistics department(45M) . I was working in a different department, in logistics, so we weren't in the same team and he wasn't my superior but technically I was working for him because I had to register in the system all the orders we got. 2 different cities. One day I had to call him because someone lost some files. It had nothing to do with me and he yelled at me, said we are all trash, we are incompetent and said I am not able (me personally) to understand anything and said stuff like " Please, just do something very very simple, can you? Can you read that email, can you check that file? Its very simple" I was so angry because we all knew he is a jerk and looks down on us as we are Slovenians and he is from ... A western country. It was very clear in many emails he (And his colleagues are thinking of us like we are lesser). I called him because he looked interesting lol. Thin, tall, clean cut, white shirt, tie, blue eyes and light brown hair. And had a vibe of authority and confidence in his eyes. Intriguing. It made me call him and it was a mistake. He made me cry after the call but somethign happened in me. I was angry and filed a complaint. He apologised... because he had to. This happened in July 2024. We met at the company's party last week. It was the very first time we met face to face. He has moved to totally another department though and he is not my manager or my boss. We talked, even joked about our interaction and had drinks. We hooked up that night and it was so weird because during sex he grabbed my neck and was like: you lil b\*tch, you filed a complaint. I guess it was just role playing and not real hate. But he went rough on me after saying this. And I felt humiliated again. I was stupid enough to tell a coworker about this a few nights ago during a night out and she told someone else and now the whole team knows. I took a whole week off because I feel shame and guilt toward them