I'm sorry if this is rambling and not nessaserily coherent, I have Autisum and Dyslexia. My(f) sister is an alcoholic. She has been for most of my life (she is a good few years older than me). She uses every reason under the sun to have a drink. For context, She will use our Father dying 20+ years ago, her Grandmother dying 30+ years ago, the trauma that happened 30+ years ago, her kids getting older, it being sunny, it being winter, someone opening a bag of chips, to go have an alcohlic beverage. I have nothing against alcohol, but she is mean; physically, mentally and verbally, amongst other attributes associated with binge alcoholism. I have personally suffered from her rampages, to the point where I have anxiety around people who have been drinking. At the beginning of this year, we suddenly lost our Mother. To me, this woman was the light of my existence, a person who overcame hardship and someone worthy of admiration. To my sister, not so much, she blames our Mother for everything going wrong in her life. However, my sister seemed to be on the right path when everything happened because she handeled all the arrangements for the funeral, estate and such, amazingly. It was all a farce, seeing as as soon as Mother was in the ground, she was drinking and using our Mothers home as a doss house. I had neighbours calling me in the middle of the night stating she was running around the streets unclothed and her (now ex) partner was having to remove their children from their home because she was coming round and being physically mean. In the 9 months since our Mother has passed, she has relapsed 3 times, the last time nearly resulting in both of us getting hit by a vehicle. I have taken her to the hospital, been dragged around the streets at midnight, been physically mean to, called alsorts, and had police involved. Now she is at it again, and I feel like just blocking her number, as she has already attacked me via text today. I suppose my question is, is WIBTA for ignoring my sister while she is in a crisis?