I’m gay and a lot of my social life consists of going to gay bars - not because I’m a drinker or partier, but that’s just where it’s easy to meet other gay people. Recently when I go to the bars I can’t wait to leave. It’s the same people and it feels meaningless. My friends get upset because I’m always the first to leave while they stay out. I’m not antisocial, but I feel like it’s not my scene. The hard part is that it’s hard to meet other gay people in general so I feel like if I don’t go to the bars at all I’ll end up with no friends.