So I have two kids with a man that I am no longer with. I live in an apartment with my kids and my boyfriend or I guess about to be ex boyfriend. We have been together for a year and 3 months. My boyfriend travels for work and is sometimes gone for months at a time. Because of this the kids father comes and takes a table to the trash. My boyfriend can see time stamps and everything on a ring camera. I explain nothing happened and he can check the camera but he still insists that I am being disrespectful. So am I the asshole for letting their dad take out the table or am I being disrespectful to my boyfriend’s boundaries?