I have 3 kids: Two teenage boys and an eight yo girl. Post is specifically about the boys. I feel like the way I do things with them gets a lot of critique. Especially with their chores. Specifically from friends and family. The teenage boys’ chores/responsibilities are making them and their sister meals (breakfast lunch and dinner),washing dishes on rotation (unless maybe I decide to wash or their grandmother to give them a break), every weekend the living room is cleaned by one of them while upstairs is cleaned by the other (their bedroom, bathroom, hallway, stairs). Kitchen swept everyday (didn’t really assign this one, one just started doing it), and cleaning the basement twice a month. I don’t think it’s that bad imo but my family seems to disagree. I’d say my kids are more responsible than most kids, and I’m just making them responsible for what they’ll have to do in like 2-3 years anyways on top of working a job. They go to school, go to practice or clubs if applicable, come home, do their homework if any and make their food. Like 99% of adults do. Had a barbecue last Saturday and some family arrived earlier and started giving their opinions when they say them doing their assigned chores (didn’t do them in the morning, like I asked 🤦). Says I’m making them act too adult like. I just responded by saying they can parent their kids however they like to. AITA?