I have visited my family on the other side of the country. Then on my way home my mom called me and asked me why my brother is so cold towards her. I tried explaining her that she did her best, but she still neglected us and made me a parent fot my youger siblings. And my brother therefore doesn't see her as his mom but sees me as his mom. Then she got sad and hung up and I'm now trying not to cry becauseI feel like the biggest A hole so am I that?