AITA for not being there when she needed me ? Hey guy, i could need a judgement of the hivemind. A little bit of backstory: I've been with my girlfriend for just about 6 years now and just about half a year ago, she has been diagnosted with chronic depression and is in a part time hospital setting, being there everyday from 8.00 - 16.00, excluding the weekdays, doing therapy and different activities to get back on track. For all this time, i've been constantly by her side, supporting her to the best of my abilities. She moved in with me, while still keeping her room at her parents place where we travel to atleast once a week. She sadly doenst have a drivers license yet, which puts an extra strain on me, being the designated driver for just about everything. I tried clearing up my schedule as much as possible, making room to accomodate her during this time of need and i'm spending less time with my friends, atleast not as much as i'd like to I'm a nurse myself, therefore i've got a stressfull job working shifts, usually understaffed lately and I have to support my grandfather whose house we live at on a daily basis, shopping and tasks around the house, the usual stuff aswell as supporting the rest of the family from time to time. Lately, i've got the feeling, that my girlfriend started relying on me more and more. It feels like i am becoming the sole pillar that supports her, her never really having someone to rely on before. Yesterday, she was rather down again and texted me while i was at work, saying that a few things came up and she wanted to talk about them when i got home after my shift. Just before that, i had a chat my with my coworkers and we decided to have a few drinks at a bar and spend a nice evening together, i decided that i needed that breather desperatley. So i decided to go for it and head out with them, the first time i was doing something alone with friends/coworkers for this month. She was not too happy about it. She told me, this morning, after we woke up and while i drove her to her therapy, that she has been disappointed and sad, that i didnt have the time to sit down and talk with her, while she has been feeling down. It felt like a brick in the face. I tried to tell her that i needed this time for myself, that that i feel like i am slowly loosing myself in all of this. Like i told her a lot lately. She told me she would understand me, but it felt shallow. Like she didnt really mean it and she still showed signs of disappointment. So now i'm here, a bit desperate, feeling like a little narcissist for taking time for myself. So, AITA for trying to prioritize my own wellbeing again ? And what could i do better ?