On Monday I invited my boyfriend (27m) to have dinner with me (26f). The dinner was to celebrate something.. The morning before the dinner he informed me that his brother will be visiting him and he is not sure if he will still be able to join, he will only come if his brother agreed to join. ** He didn’t ask me if it would be okay if he invited his brother. He just looked at me and asked if I would be angry if he didn’t come, I said no as he is his own person and he gets to male his own choices. Later that day he sent me a message and asked where we will be having dinner, I then stated that I have not decided yet and asked why he said “we” as he kinda made it clear that he will not be joining. He then called and I told him my point of view on the situation, if I had made a commitment to do something with him I would honor it and the other person would have to wait until my original plans took place unless it was a emergency. Anyway.. he ended up joining me for dinner with his brother (I didn’t even want to go anymore but I put on my best face. While we had a conversation does this man say “The thought of you having dinner alone made me come”. Wow? Okay… The next day he invited me to have dinner as his place, so I asked him if it was a petty invitation so I dont have to be at home alone. He said no.. I realised how much his comment and attitude hurt me Thursday night that I couldn’t stomach going to see him, so I went home instead. He did bring me some food this morning, he didn’t look happy but he also didn’t say much. When I mentioned how the weekends actions made me feel, he said that I always see the bad in everything and that he didn’t mean it like that. I’m still hurt by the entire situation and just not sure how to move forward from this.. I really do want to, but I want him to see me to.