Sorry for bad grammar, English isn't my first language. I (23m) just got an "ultimatum" from my mom's boyfriend, stating that if I don't find a full time job I have to go live with my dad. I'm not saying that living with my dad is a problem, it's the fact I have tried working a normal job but I just can't. I have tried three normal jobs before but I can't keep them because of health problems (I have ADHD, autism, dyspraxia and have struggled with my back for as long as I can remember). Either I work half as fast as anyone else or I work as fast but my work is only half as good. I started in landscaping at 20 where I didn't work fast enough and my back suffered under it (during my two week notice I was only able to work a total of 5 days because my back just didn't allow me to). After that I worked as a packer at a factory but again I couldn't work fast enough in combination with my back issues. At my third job my primary task was to take samples of potatoes while making sure the system worked and work with truck drivers. I had to do this all at the same time but just froze because of it. Each job drained me mentally to the point I just went home and slept to regain any energy to go back to work the next day. Little over a year now I found a job at a fryery where I work 12 hours a week. I have been able to work there for the longest and am at my most comfortable. I don't make as much as a normal job (which is obvious) but I make enough to pay 'rent' at home, save some money and have a little spending money. I already talked to my psychiatrist about my mom not understanding that it's the only comfortable job I can find. He explained this to my mom and she said she understood it but now it came up again. I think her boyfriend is the one that pushes her to put this on me because of several statements he has made. Wednesday I go back to my psychiatrist and ask him what I should do. I'm not out for advice on what I should do but I just want to know if I am the asshole for not continuing to look for another job that pays more. TL;DR: AITA for not having a full time job at 23 if I can't find a job I can do while feeling mentally stable