My cousin recently started dating someone but I don’t get along with, because in the past, that man has been rude to me during family gatherings, making rude comments and generally creating tension. And my parents’ anniversary is one of the rare family gatherings I look forward to, and I wanted it to be a stress-free day When planning the guest list this year, I decided not to include her new partner. When my cousin realized that her partner wasn’t invited, She went looking for me with an mad look and started saying mean words at me. I don’t want to cause drama, but I also feel like I have a right to enjoy the holiday without someone making it uncomfortable for me. So AITA for keeping the guest list limited to people I feel comfortable around?