AITA Am I the Asshole? So this is a bit of an iceberg situation and this is just the tip of a much bigger problem. I recently lost my home to unforseen circumstances and my sister has put our mother, my partner, my kids and dogs, and myself up til we can find something. Her husband hates me. It's never been clear why, he just has always been extremely unpleasant to me, to the point I have avoided him for 16 years. I even avoided thanking him for letting me stay here because he would try to turn that into an argument too. My uncle tried to help by getting me some groceries which should have also helped take some of the strain off her, I felt bad and didn't get much, but I shared what I had with both hers and my kids. She said it made her mad I had food for myself and that I was selfish. I left some hot dogs in the deep freeze and haven't touched them in weeks. Was intending to make them the other night when she went out and left me in charge of supper and she had 18 hot dogs and 8 buns for 11 people, averaging 2 hotdogs each. Someone ate half my hot dogs and the other half was freezer burned. I've picked up after my crew, and have taken care of my elderly mother while here. They call me "selfish" and "worthless". Recently, she requested I pick up after my dogs, which Ive done. They don't pick up after their dog(who btw, attacked my dog so I've done my best to keep them apart). Last night, unprovoked she told me that leaving their dogs poop out was a "test" for me to prove how selfish I am, and that I failed This is where the "AITA" lies. All things considered, am I the asshole for not picking up after my sister's dog? **One detail I failed to mention** "my sister's house" was my parents house and was the inheritance that was to be split and one of us would have to buy the other out, always presumed to be her buying me out. 6 months before my dad died she took him to a lawyer and had the house signed over to her husband... She got the house, I got our elderly mother who requires alot of help daily.