context: the only quality time i spent with my father was fishing, and he recently started a new life with a new family abandoning me but not my younger brother i also formed a bond with a professor over fishing/fish, the last time i went fishing i took pictures for him and when i went to show him i found out he passed away me and my boyfriend are coming up on 3 years in march. i am spending the weekend with my boyfriends family and his dad often goes fishing. i go when my boyfriend goes but i feel uncomfortable going with just me and his dad, i also sometimes feel uncomfortable going with his dad and sister without him there, but i sometimes do that. today his dad and his sister wanted to go fishing, i kept asking my boyfriend if he was interested in going and he kept dodging the question. he eventually said he didnt want to go so i said i wouldnt go either, and that caused a huge ruckus with him and his mom. they kept pushing me to go and saying they wanted "mother son time" and his mom kept saying that "we should seperate" which is odd because she only uses that language when people are fighting. it makes me feel super weird because is she insinuating that we are going to get in a fight soon? or that we cant spend over a certain amount of time together without fighting? bottom line, i didnt go, and my boyfriend and his mom are a little weirded out that i didnt go and i can only imagine what they are thinking about me but am i the asshole for being uncomfortable for not wanting to fish alone with his dad or dad and sister?