Sigh. Honestly hoped I would remain a lurker on this thread but here we are. Obligatory I'm on my phone so sorry in advance if this looks janky. Okay, so I've been living with my friend for over 10 years now. During that time we've had our ups and downs, but we're at a real low point and neither of us is willing to back down on it. So for the past few years my friend has been trying to get into a program at the local college. Included in it's application for mature students is a form that you can add your experience to for extra points toward admission. Here's the problem, my friend is convinced that all they need is enough points and they'll get in, even though they don't have all the prerequisite courses. They've tried this approach before and it hasn't worked. They've tried to get the prerequisite courses, but didn't get them all. And admits (though they're positive they'll get in for next year) that if they don't they'll try to get the courses again. These points aren't free to aquire. If you already have them then great but essentially they want to add as many points as they can, to do this I would need to ask my parents for 5-600 dollars. Thing is I have done this for them before. Several times. I technically owe my parents at least a couple grand from trying to help my friend. I finally reached my breaking point today and said I can't ask for the money anymore. We already rely on my parents help for a lot. They're getting old and would like to retire soon and I hate having to ask for any extra funds, but especially since I know this would essentially just be burning the money anyway. I'm immediately met with 'thanks for being a c*nt today' and the term selfish c**t is thrown around. Their plan was to ask their father for funds at the end of the month to help pay off another loan of mine (not completely because they didn't even ask what I would need for that) as long as I ask for the help now. Since I won't, they say they'll use those funds to get the points themself and they'll have extra for themself because "they aren't selfish". I honestly don't think I'm the selfish one here. I feel bad asking my parents for any extra funds, even for necessities and other than the occasional takeout almost never ask for anything for myself. So AITA for saying no about asking for more money and being "selfish"?