Hi, I'm pretty sure I'm not the ass hole in this situation but the girls made me feel really guilty. On Friday, at around 10pm, two girls knocked on me and my sister's door. I thought that someone might need help or it was our RA so I told my sister to open the door. That's when these girls pushed their way into our room and started filming a room tour of our room for a Tiktok. For extra information: 1. my room was hoarder level messy. Me and my sister have depression and it's really hard for us to keep a room clean + my sister has a chronic illness. We're trying to be better though but this night our room was really messy 2. Me and my sister are obese to put it bluntly. I really didn't want any bullying to come my sister's way. 3. I was wearing night clothes and I didn't have a wig on and they filmed my wig that was on the table. So after they filmed the Tiktok, they left and I was in shock. I told them to not post it anywhere and they said they wouldn't and Left. My sister and I tried to laugh it off but I was really worried that we were going to be posted on the Internet so I got dressed and told a RA. We found the girls and two RA's made sure that the video wasn't in their camera roll or tiktok drafts. The RAs asked why would they burst into our room without asking to film and they said that they "Did it to everyone and nobody else had a problem with it". The RAs said that they could be fined which made me feel really bad because I just wanted to make sure that it wasn't posted anywhere and I'm pretty sure they're athletes and I don't want their chances to be ruined. I called a couple of family members because I was traumatized and they agreed that it was wrong but they said if our room was clean, it wouldn't be an issue. It still would've been a problem though because I don't want to be on the Internet looking like that. So am I the asshole? Sorry if this is incoherent. I will answer as many questions as I can.